Voice it out

Juz finished my personality class..and i dare to say it'd be the most interesting lecture that i've ever had! Mr Tan is awesome =) Grasp a lot of things..

It's true, we always diffuse the responsibility to outside sources..we blaming others most of the time instead seeing own problems..that's why some people like to run down others without judging themselves firstly.. In fact, the people who deny gossiping the strongest are the ones who enjoy doing it the most..is it one of a kind of lacking self-efficacy? People always follow the majority and popularity without seeing the truth.. if he say so, if she say so..is it mean that you can conclude it's really how the things are? yeah..people always do. There are too many person lack of strong personality..they afraid if they don't do or act the way that every people do, they will lose themselves from the group and juz simply agree with all the things which saying by the more powerful person..it's kind of realistic world? i dun know..and i juz knowing that it's a norm..that never change.

将心比心

Sometimes, i know i can't do some particular things..and i realize that i can't promise anything..and to be honest, i hate people force me to promise something that i'm not sure whether i can manage to do it well..i'm not born to satisfy anyone's desire..you must know everyone has his own situation and reasons might you can't understand at all..juz because i can't promise you doesn't mean that i mean to hurt you or what..Do you know that when you request others times without number..it'll giving so much pressure to that particular person? For me, yeah. I'll feel guilty when i can't do the things that you request me to accomplish..i dun wanna reject people..but please to consider the situation of others..gradually, i found that i've become the sort of person who makes empty promise...because of not disappointed you, i promise many stuff that i unable to achieve..and i realized that it's completely a wrong way to reduce my guilty to you...it's kinda make me feel uncomfortable..you got your own views, i got my own difficulties..i hate faithless people, and i always wanted  honour my promise, though..so please..dun keep asking me to promise more than i can do..


You're a nice friend for me..the one who i always appreciate..i'm tryin to help..but i hope you can realize that what you should focus now..i'm worry about you..but i'm not gonna change you..never..juz as ur daddy said..it's your own choice..you have responsibility to pay your effort to do it well..we've grown up to be an adult..we all should clear that what we supposed to do..dun keep thinking the pain that'd never heal..concentrate on the books even juz a twenty minutes a day..all is depend on you..as a friend..i have no rights to forcing you but juz hoping you can understand what i've said..and that's what i wanna say.

Your day will come, the past is gone.
Dun give up.